Dr. Ijaz Ahmad — Mental Health Services
Health & Wellbeing · Behaviour & Habits
Gambling: When "Just One More Bet" Takes Over
Understanding Problem Gambling and How to Regain Control
By Dr. Ijaz Ahmad | Mental Health Services
For most people, gambling is occasional and harmless. But for some, it stops being a choice and starts feeling like something they can't switch off — chasing losses, hiding bets from loved ones, and telling themselves "just one more" long after it stopped being fun. This is one of the most under-recognised and under-treated mental health conditions, often hidden by shame and financial secrecy.
Is Gambling Addiction a Real Diagnosis?
Yes. Gambling Disorder is formally recognised in major diagnostic systems, including the DSM-5, where it's classified alongside substance addictions — reflecting strong evidence that problem gambling activates similar reward pathways in the brain as drugs or alcohol.
This means the compulsion many people describe — the pull to keep playing despite serious consequences — has a genuine neurological and psychological basis. It isn't a matter of weak willpower.
Signs It May Have Become a Problem
- Needing to gamble with increasing amounts of money to feel the same excitement
- Repeated unsuccessful attempts to cut back or stop
- Restlessness or irritability when trying to stop
- Gambling to escape stress, worry, or difficult emotions
- "Chasing losses" — gambling more to try to win back money already lost
- Lying to family or others about how much time or money is spent gambling
- Risking or losing relationships, jobs, or opportunities because of gambling
- Relying on others to relieve financial problems caused by gambling
“The pull to keep playing has a genuine neurological basis — it isn't a matter of weak willpower.”
Why Does It Happen?
Research points to several contributing factors, often overlapping:
- Reward system changes — near-misses and unpredictable wins strongly reinforce the behaviour, similar to substance use
- Emotional escape — gambling is often used to cope with stress, boredom, loneliness, or low mood
- Cognitive distortions — beliefs like "I'm due for a win" or "I can control the outcome" fuel continued play
- Easy access — online and mobile gambling has made round-the-clock access far more available
- Co-occurring conditions — depression, anxiety, and other addictive behaviours frequently occur alongside problem gambling
How It Can Affect Your Life
- Financial stability — debt, loss of savings, or financial ruin
- Relationships — broken trust, secrecy, and family conflict
- Work or studies — absenteeism, poor performance, or job loss
- Mental health — anxiety, depression, and in severe cases, suicidal thoughts
- Legal issues, in some cases, related to funding gambling losses
When Should You Seek Help?
Consider speaking with a mental health professional if:
- You've tried to stop or cut back and been unable to
- Gambling is affecting your finances, relationships, or work
- You're hiding the extent of your gambling from people close to you
- You gamble to escape stress or difficult feelings
- You feel unable to stop even when you want to
Effective, Evidence-Based Treatment
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) — the most well-supported treatment, targeting the distorted thinking patterns that maintain gambling behaviour
- Addressing underlying triggers — such as stress, anxiety, or depression
- Practical safeguards — such as self-exclusion tools, financial controls, and limiting access
- Support for family members — gambling affects the whole household, and family support improves outcomes
- Peer support groups, alongside professional treatment, for ongoing accountability
Treatment focuses on both stopping the behaviour and understanding what it's compensating for.
The Bottom Line
Problem gambling is a recognised, treatable condition — not a moral failing or a simple lack of discipline. The shame and secrecy that often surround it make it harder to ask for help, but recovery is genuinely possible with the right, non-judgmental support.