Dr. Ijaz Ahmad — Mental Health Services

Health & Wellbeing  ·  Behaviour & Habits

Gambling: When "Just One More Bet" Takes Over

Understanding Problem Gambling and How to Regain Control

For most people, gambling is occasional and harmless. But for some, it stops being a choice and starts feeling like something they can't switch off — chasing losses, hiding bets from loved ones, and telling themselves "just one more" long after it stopped being fun. This is one of the most under-recognised and under-treated mental health conditions, often hidden by shame and financial secrecy.

Is Gambling Addiction a Real Diagnosis?

Yes. Gambling Disorder is formally recognised in major diagnostic systems, including the DSM-5, where it's classified alongside substance addictions — reflecting strong evidence that problem gambling activates similar reward pathways in the brain as drugs or alcohol.

This means the compulsion many people describe — the pull to keep playing despite serious consequences — has a genuine neurological and psychological basis. It isn't a matter of weak willpower.

Signs It May Have Become a Problem

  • Needing to gamble with increasing amounts of money to feel the same excitement
  • Repeated unsuccessful attempts to cut back or stop
  • Restlessness or irritability when trying to stop
  • Gambling to escape stress, worry, or difficult emotions
  • "Chasing losses" — gambling more to try to win back money already lost
  • Lying to family or others about how much time or money is spent gambling
  • Risking or losing relationships, jobs, or opportunities because of gambling
  • Relying on others to relieve financial problems caused by gambling
“The pull to keep playing has a genuine neurological basis — it isn't a matter of weak willpower.”

Why Does It Happen?

Research points to several contributing factors, often overlapping:

  • Reward system changes — near-misses and unpredictable wins strongly reinforce the behaviour, similar to substance use
  • Emotional escape — gambling is often used to cope with stress, boredom, loneliness, or low mood
  • Cognitive distortions — beliefs like "I'm due for a win" or "I can control the outcome" fuel continued play
  • Easy access — online and mobile gambling has made round-the-clock access far more available
  • Co-occurring conditions — depression, anxiety, and other addictive behaviours frequently occur alongside problem gambling

How It Can Affect Your Life

  • Financial stability — debt, loss of savings, or financial ruin
  • Relationships — broken trust, secrecy, and family conflict
  • Work or studies — absenteeism, poor performance, or job loss
  • Mental health — anxiety, depression, and in severe cases, suicidal thoughts
  • Legal issues, in some cases, related to funding gambling losses

When Should You Seek Help?

Consider speaking with a mental health professional if:

  • You've tried to stop or cut back and been unable to
  • Gambling is affecting your finances, relationships, or work
  • You're hiding the extent of your gambling from people close to you
  • You gamble to escape stress or difficult feelings
  • You feel unable to stop even when you want to

Effective, Evidence-Based Treatment

  • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) — the most well-supported treatment, targeting the distorted thinking patterns that maintain gambling behaviour
  • Addressing underlying triggers — such as stress, anxiety, or depression
  • Practical safeguards — such as self-exclusion tools, financial controls, and limiting access
  • Support for family members — gambling affects the whole household, and family support improves outcomes
  • Peer support groups, alongside professional treatment, for ongoing accountability

Treatment focuses on both stopping the behaviour and understanding what it's compensating for.

The Bottom Line

Problem gambling is a recognised, treatable condition — not a moral failing or a simple lack of discipline. The shame and secrecy that often surround it make it harder to ask for help, but recovery is genuinely possible with the right, non-judgmental support.

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